My husband and I have been married for 24 years. All through these years we've battled his desire to look at porn, etc. Now with technology, it's always at his fingertips...(phone). I am at a loss as to what to do. He knows, as I have expressed it every single time I catch it, that it tears my heart out. Yet he has what he calls a slip up now and then. He thinks cause it's not daily, I'm overreacting, letting my imagination run away with me. Last time I caught him, he didn't even feel the need to apologize...I'm broken.
I mean… watching porn is a normal human thing to do so I personally don’t think it’s a big deal. If it really bothers you though & he knows this, that’s kind of rude. He knows it hurts your feelings so he should be mindful of that.
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What about porn makes you feel uncomfortable and upset?
For me I personally don’t see it as cheating or anything bad, masturbation is a healthy and normal thing for humans to do and some people just desire to masturbate to porn.
That doesn’t mean they find you unattractive or aren’t in love with you!
But it doesn’t matter how anyone else feels about it, the most important thing is to figure out why you feel the way you do.
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